Today I accidentally referred to my roommates as my family. My slip made me pause for a moment to think about what it actually means to be a family.
I spend most of the year with these people afterall. We have witnessed each others best and worst moments; the absolute pinnacles of happiness and the absolute most heart-wrenching moments of sadness. We make small talk over the dining room table and argue about whose turn it is to take out the garbage. We act as one another’s mother, sister, best friend, and weird aunt who offers to give you a nickel if you rub out her bunion…
Being a family it seems comes less from genetics than from the unconditional love you can have for someone, even after you’ve seen them wipe earwax on the wall or pick particles of food from their fingernails or sleep with a giant Robert Pattinson blanket….
As weird as they are (and trust me, they’re weird), I think there are still stranger family dynamics than our own.